Lily of the Valley

Friendship...

Hey guys, it’s me again!! Being a 17-year-old can be both exciting and challenging. It’s a time filled with self-discovery, new experiences, and the relationships that shape who we are. For a Christian teen, friendships can carry even more weight. How do you balance your faith with the desire to fit in? How do you choose friends wisely while still being a light to everyone around you? Here are some reflections and advice for navigating friendships as a Christian teenager. Seek out friendships that build you up, inspire you to grow, and support you in your walk with Christ. Look for friends who not only respect your faith but encourage you to live it out. These are the people who will push you to become the best version of yourself, spiritually and personally. Being a light doesn’t mean being preachy or judgmental. It’s about living your life in a way that reflects Jesus' love and kindness. Your actions and attitude can speak louder than any words you might say. Sometimes, your friends will notice something different about you and might even ask about your faith. This can open the door to meaningful conversations and opportunities to share the Gospel in a way that’s natural and authentic. Being a 17-year-old Christian in today’s world can sometimes feel like walking a tightrope. You’re balancing your desire to stay true to your faith with the natural desire to form friendships and fit in. Remember, you don’t have to compromise your beliefs to have strong, meaningful relationships. By being true to yourself, choosing friends who uplift you, being a light to those around you, and setting healthy boundaries, you can build lasting friendships that honor God and help you grow. At the end of the day, Jesus is your ultimate friend, and His example of love, grace, and kindness is the model for how to approach every relationship in your life. Stay rooted in Him, and He will guide you through all the challenges and joys that come with being a Christian teenager. Hope my perspective helps my fellow Christian teens!